I named the disorder just now. It might be scientifically studied, but I doubt it. Boyfriend envy. It's pretty common in girls during the junior highschool and highschool age. I'm currently a victim, and I'm sure some of you reading this are or have been a victim as well.
It's a common thing to envy those who have boyfriends. Regardless of who the girl who has the boyfriend is or who the boyfriend is. You just envy them because they have a boyfriend. And I'm sure guys can have girlfriend envy. But it seems to me that guys are more okay with being single than girls, but I may be wrong. (I probably am ;D) SO to avoid boyfriend or girlfriend envy take into account these tips:
1.) Become comfortable with who you are. Most people are in relationships because they need someone of the opposite sex to build them up.
2.) Hang out more with friends of the opposite sex. This can help you build confidence and might help you to have a better relationship when you are in one.
3.) Realize that all relationships have thier problems. None are perfect. When you see that couple walking down the hall hand in hand, remember that they might not be completely happy.
4.) Don't get into a relationship just so you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. You should date someone you really care about, not just for the sake of having a special someone.
5.) Last, and I think most importantly, learn to be happy for those in relationships, and realize that your someone will come.
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